wedding day!

We enjoyed a beautiful day on Saturday

and an even more beautiful wedding.

Thanks so much for all of you who shared in our joy.

The marriage of my oldest son to a most wonderful woman.

 

 

The bride and groom didn't stop smiling the entire time.

 

Sebastian, the ring bearer, and Heidi, the flower girl.

Aren't they just precious?!

 



My heat is still smiling.

I wish them a life filled with love and blessings from above.

camping in a flash

I have one of the longest days in history coming up tomorrow but wanted to share a few photos with you from our weekend.

It started out a little interesting. Within the first hour we had a rattlesnake sighting and a swarm of bees moving over our heads. It got better from there ... in a hurry.

 

Yes. They were cold.

But they're young.

 

 

God's beautiful creation.

The penthouse suites.

This is sort of rattler season and they were making us a wee bit cautious.

The tents went up on the trailer.

Worked perfect!

Like serious. Pristine fencing on the front porch and everything!

 



Just so you know. These are not our toys. These aren't even our kids.

But they sure were ready to ride!

Kind of looks like the lines at the gas stations during a gas shortage or something.

Miles and miles they drove ...

helmeted and in circles.

 





We are hoping he has a love of wrenches at some point in life.

At this moment he was a happy boy.

He's doing some serious molar cutting and is not the happiest boy on the block.

 



Our littlest ever loves.

Now we are talking serious joy.

The kind of I never knew existed until a year ago.

 



I love that our kids enjoy the outdoors as much as we do.

I know the others would have loved to be there this weekend and couldn't be.

Actually, we were missing our boys and their brides.

We had all of the girls.

 



This week is going to be hopping.
Monday thru Thursday working with some very long days in there.
Brock & Bridget should be here Wednesday!!!!
Family dinner Thursday evening.
More family flying into town Thursday.
Friday wedding rehearsal and dinner.
Saturday .... the biggest day of their lives for Blayde & Charlene.

It's a really big one for us as well.
We gain another daughter.

Yes.
There is joy everywhere.

mantra of joy

Recently, a FB friend posted this as part of her status:

I read an article on Contentment, and in [it] a lady talked about taking her Amish friend with her when she went to a large mall for the first time. When they left, her Amish friend told [her] 'Before I went there I knew I had everything I needed. Now, I think I need so many things!'

I didn't comment on her post, but had the thought that it mirrors what I have been thinking lately.

In actuality, my mantra lately has been Envy is the thief of joy.

I don't know what prompted President Theodore Roosevelt to use the words Comparison is the thief of joy, but I have my own reasons for my newest mantra.

I have thought of deleting Facebook, but I really do enjoy it. I don't waste mind numbing hours poring over people's pages. If FB friends (or acquaintances as many are in actuality) post things about repost this so I can see how many people are actually paying attention to me, I'm not going to do it. If you feel like I'm ignoring you ... go ahead and unfriend me. I'm okay with that.

I really don't have time to personally visit the pages of some 300 people .. or whatever it is.

I do like to see your pictures and hear of your joys and, as life tends to give us, sorrows. I'll rejoice with you and mourn with you.

I love seeing the pictures of families growing and playing. I love seeing reality. I even enjoy a link now and then.

Those don't typically cause me envy.

But there are some things that do.

I am happy in my life. I have an active family life, faith life and work life that keep me hopping and happy. We have been abundantly blessed.

Then sometimes as my finger is flipping down the page of FB, I see things that cause me discontent. I don't want you to stop doing those things that bring you pleasure and that you enjoy. I love the fact that you are able to do them. I especially love seeing families doing things together. I rejoice when I know that it isn't a common occurrence for you and that the memories you just made with your family will be treasured for the rest of your lives. I love that you can take days and spend them out and about with your friends/family/loved ones doing the things you enjoy.

However, it is as if I am the Amish woman who just walked into the mall. Until my finger hit the FB icon on my phone, I had enough. I was content. I was happy.

Then I scrolled through pages and suddenly I don't have enough. Envy, defined as a feeling of discontented or resentful longing aroused by someone else's possessions, qualities, or luck, has reared its ugly head and taken my joy.

No it hasn't taken.

I have allowed my joy to be given to envy.

Will others look at my life with the same kind of envy? Perhaps. I am at a most delicious stage of life. I take naps when I feel like it (although lately I'm developing napping insomnia!). I go out for breakfast/brunch on Sunday if I'm in the mood. I can drop and run to Hobby Lobby on a crafting whim. I can get my laundry done in several hours. I could seriously go on and on.

I have an entire litany of reasons that a walk through FB shouldn't be anymore challenging than an Amish walk through the mall should be.

I still don't have an answer to my dilemma as, irrationally, my joy turns to envy. No longer is my life filled with enough. I am left wanting more than our good Creator has seen fit to bless me with.

Maybe someone has a solution for this problem. Perhaps this is my problem alone and no one else shares it, although I am doubtful of that.

Perhaps my mantra is enough for now. It is a gentle reminder to the heart.

Hold on to the joy.

I'm going camping.
There is sure to be much there in the way of both peace and joy.

mr & mrs

As part of the upcoming wedding, we have an evening get together with both families ... a tradition of the bride's family and heritage. It is a Spanish named party so I asked my resident fluent Spanish speaking person at work what it meant. I know that we are all meeting each other that evening but other than that I'm clueless. So I asked him if it is a gift giving event and he thought so. 

So just in case ... I buzzed up something this weekend that the bride and groom might enjoy. 

First I had a few ugly smaller couch throw pillows that I took the covering off of. 

Then I cut muslin to the same size and made it double thickness. 

Next came Microsoft Word and printing. I found the font I wanted, printed the size I wanted and then placed them where I'd like them on the fabric. Once I had that in order, I did the ol' fashioned thing and taped them to the window to trace. 

Fabric was placed and taped over the lettering so I could pencil trace the wording onto the fabric 

Then a fabric marker to darken and fill the wording. I've also seen folks do this with Sharpie. 

I'm not a great fan of stacking double layers of fabric and then trying to get the edges lined up once it is folded. I'm sure there is a trick. Probably like cutting one piece just a tad smaller the the other, but I just go with the wing it thing. Trim off the excess mess when I'm done.

I stacked the layers and then folded it in half, sewing around two of the open sides. One side was left open to slide or stuff the filling in.

Next, I pressed the edges so they were sharp and even.

Followed by top stitching around three sides. 

Now for the unfinished side. I folded the edges (double thickness again) in and pressed them.

(Can you believe this cutting mat is almost new?!)

The stuffing was inserted into the pillow envelope. Those pressed seams were aligned and pinned.

And then, because I can't manage to find where I put the other foot for my machine, I struggled to get this through the sewing machine. One row of stitching to close the deal. 

Soon ... the deal will be really sealed!

After I was done and had shared a picture with my girls, I asked them to pick up any really cheap pillows they see at yard sales, etc.
The exterior is easily tossed.
A wee bit of muslin and a fabric marker ... lots of possibilities!

a blessed easter

to each and every one of you.

We enjoyed a day with our loved ones around us.
I actually took out the camera.
Even flipped between a few lenses.
Some of the kiddos are more challenging than others to keep still, but I managed half a dozen blog posts out of todays camera action.

Tia is dreading one of them.
Oh yum!

This is the last year that the Easter Bunny will fill baskets in our home.
There are some of these things that I don't mind leaving behind.

This would be one of them.
Someone beat me home from church today and sent me a text that read,
"Who's Easter bag?"
Yup. Last one. Done.

The littles were both here today at different times.
I think I might actually enjoy Easter egg hunts with them when they are a wee bit older.

Wyatt is such a sunny little guy. He is ticklish, has the greatest belly laugh and does not stop moving. Ever. And happy, happy, happy. Makes me want to drive over and snuggle him right now!
I say that must be all Simonson.

He is now at the age where if I disappear behind the camera ... he doesn't know where I went and stops smiling. Makes for some more serious photography when I can't see but through my view finder.

 

Then there is this one! He wants to be everywhere. Sebastian turned a year old this week and hasn't started walking yet. He's pretty proud of himself when he pulls a hands free stand. Won't be long and he'll be motoring by foot ... everywhere. As it is, he doesn't mind crawling in the rocks, under benches and couches .. pretty much anywhere he can fit!

 



Heart. Be. Still.
My hubby just found my hidden Cadbury mini eggs.
And asked me if I wanted a few.
I must remember to stop at Target on my way home tomorrow.
I think they'll be marked down.

And, last but never least, the recipient of the last Easter basket in this house.

Have a great week!

91,073

I've only been at this blog address for about 3 years and the number of visits to this site were numbered at 91,073 on some recent Thursday evening.

It has been a challenge lately to get here and I feel badly about it.

However, I'm not alone.
In the blogs I like to visit, 2 this past week lamented about the difficulty of getting to blogging, even though they love it.
I'm with them.
What on earth has happened to life?!

I thought mine was crazy, but seriously!

Today life came to a screeching halt. Yesterday we enjoyed Charlene's bridal shower and I may have gone way overboard on these things. 

Now I'll probably never eat them again. I haven't puked in years ... and after last nite ... would prefer it was many more years before it happens again. Today has been a catching up on sleep day. That's all I've been good for. Missed the first birthday party of the first grandchild. So sad. 

And I still haven't managed to catch up on any blog reading even if I'm being a slug!

See what I mean?!

And from today via text message ...

And off we go to another week!

I finally got me some coconut oil

and joined the coconut oil craze. 

Alright.

I'm not baking or cooking with it. 

And I'm guessing that within the next ten years, someone will decide it wasn't good for us anyway.

'T'is the way it usually works.

Besides, my hubby is allergic to coconuts so that ain't happening over here.

Somewhere (probably Pinterest) I had seen furniture being oiled using coconut oil.

Why not? Maybe I'll have a hankering sometime to make coffee using coconut oil and I'll have it at the ready.

In the meantime, I took it to my outdoor wood furniture.

This arid climate just dries out everything so fast. 

I should probably put this on the calendar to do once a month, because they looked so shiny and healthy when I was done gooping on oil.

I spent Saturday cleaning and puttering.
Oh, but I do love to putter.
The laundry room got organized enough to move the leftover crafting things from Winter Services out there and out of the guest room.
If you know the children's book If You Give a Moose a Muffin .... I found this M hanging out in a corner in the laundry room.
Hmmm.
I'm only working 2 days next week .... I'll show you what it becomes.
Note the yummy table runner underneath the M?
It was a beautiful gift that has turned into a brainchild.
My hubby may not be the only one with attention issues around here.
I'll share that (the result of the brainchild .. not Jari's attention issues) later this week.

Curtains and a throw pillow got made for the camper which means we are almost done out there!
I feel like I'm in a Scandinavian country on a boat when I look in there.
I'll share soon.

Laundry and more laundry got done.

The floors and bathrooms never saw a vacuum, mop or scrub rag, but I did manage to free this empty hole of projects that aren't going anywhere and haven't for a long time. I'm back to crocheting rugs while visiting.

Lately, I have noticed that I enjoy a relaxing morning when I can. Perhaps my subconscious knows that the weather is about to heat up and there won't be too terribly many more cool mornings to just sit outdoors and drink my coffee ... cup after cup. Somewhere in the sipping of my second cup Sunday morning, I found this.

The screen shot is bad quality. While the chair itself is fascinating, it makes me seriously hurt looking at it. 

However, I did find some cool ideas for next February!